Women You Should Avoid

Dating with somebody? Is she the right person you have been looking for? Is there anybody you should be careful about? Is there any particular characteristic of the woman you are going out which could complicate your relationship with her?

There are couple of women with particular characteristic you should consider seriously while dating. Try to avoid women...

• Who is too caring to you, constantly fixing your hair and tucking in your shirt, you are the victim of a Mother Goose. Although she may have good intentions and be great in many other ways, but her motherly instincts will eventually be too much to tolerate. You may try to change her but if she still can not resist the urge to stop caring about the details, you need to consider your relationship.
  
  
• Who is over-emotional for anything and can cry easily over any bad happening. Although women are more emotional than men but you can easily differentiate between the emotional and over-emotional part. If you find yourself whipping out the box of tissues on a daily basis (and over trivial matters), it may be time to bail out.
  
  
• Who wants, and in fact, insists you to spend every waking moment with her, refusing to let you go out with the boys or spend any significant emount of time with anyone else. Any kind of your suggestion or explanation of her or your need of spending time with friends will only bring up argument in which you would have to prove your love for her may be 100 times. Remember, if you can't have a little independence in your relationship, it's never going to last.
  
  
• Who always wants to be the center of everyone's attention, no matter where or with whom you are. In order to get this attention, she may use one or many of the following techniques: Talking excessively or may be too loud, wildly gesturing, telling unbelievable stories, or wearing extremely provocative outfits. Will you be able to handle such a stage hog?
  
  
• Who is interested in everything of yours which is directly related to your finances. She compliments you on your expensive watch or car, enquires about the kind car you drive, what you do for a living, where you live, and so on. Since she is basically looking for a sugar daddy, she will size you up within the first five minutes and drop you just as quickly if your cash flow does not meet her standards. Whatever your financial situation is, do you really want a woman who only sees men as dollar signs?
  
  
• Who can discuss about anything that crosses her mind incessantly, no matter how boring or unimportant a topic is or what. The worst type of Motor Mouth is the one whose favorite topic of conversation is herself. If you can manage to listen to all the details of all the topics at any time of the day, no matter what, go ahead, otherwise would be a better idea to consider the relationship.
  
  
• Who is very expensive to maintain. She has always been treated like princess by the parents and expects the same from you. Not only will she constantly keep you busy taking care of her every need, but her needs and expectations can be quite expensive too. Although she is not necessarily after your money, but she has expensive taste, and expects you to shower her with nice and posh things.
  
  
• Who can argue almost about everything whether or not the topic has any sense to it. The more you try to tell her that her sense of logic is out of whack, the more she will argue. She may also try to make you feel guilty aout everything you do, even situations that you have absolutely no control over. If you are in such a relationship where you are always tense when with her, it defeats the purpose of having a relationship.

Its not all black and white. There could be women who has more than one of the above traits but could still turn out to be a great partner. There could be women who have any of the traits and can be even worse, but after talking about it, she overcomes it and could become a wonderful partner.

You should simply watch out for the types of women that take things to the extreme and make you miserable. And see if there is any possible chance of improving it. A successful relationship is one where both the partners understand, respect, care, appreciate and love each other. That is there is a kind of satisfaction in your relationship. And if you are unhappy more often than satisfied in your relationship, it's better to give serious consideration to it before its too late.

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