Men You Should Avoid

Dating with somebody? Is he the right person you have been looking for? Is there anybody you should be careful about? Is there any particular characteristic of the guy you are going out which could complicate your relationship with him?

There are couple of men with particular characteristic you should consider seriously while dating. Try to avoid men...

• Who wants, and in fact, insists you to spend every waking moment with him, refusing to let you go out for yourself or spend any significant amount of time with anyone else. Any kind of your suggestion or explanation of his or your need of spending time with friends and families will only bring up argument in which you would have to prove your love for him may be 100 times. Remember, if you can't have a little independence in your relationship, it's never going to last.
  
  
• Who prefer spending time at gym and talk about his workouts most of the time. He has a life time membership at this gym. He has all the latest gadgets and home entertainment systems. Most probably, in such relationship, you will never see him as he is always down at the gym. He will spend more time in the bathroom then you do.
  
  
• Who always treats you like a princess and is the perfect lover for you. He dresses well and is out to impress every woman he comes in contact with. He will, of course, have trouble remembering your name, with all the women he has on the go. He will have all the excuses for not showing up. You will have to compete with his phone as he has so many calls to return and text messages to answer.
  
  
• Who is a workaholic and is so much in love with his work. He is going places, but will he be taking you with him? He is always smartly dressed, has great taste in decor and eats at the finest restaurants. However, his work will always come first. May be you have to make an appointment to see him. He will take you to elegant dinner parties then leave you with strangers while he talks shop.
  
  
• Who always wants to be the center of everyone's attention, no matter where or with whom you are. In order to get this attention, he may use one or many of the following techniques: talking excessively or may be too loud, wildly gesturing, telling unbelievable stories, or one or the other thing.
  
  
• Who is mamma's boy who either lives with her and if not that pop in for tea every other day and goes for Sunday dinner. She is the one who helps him out with almost everything. His mom is the best person and the perfect one in the whole world. Having such a partner will bring up one problem, you will never live up to his mother and although he will love and cherish you forever he will take his mother's side every time. Time and again he will keep comparing you to his mom, no matter what you have done for him.

It's not all black and white. There could be men who has more than one of the above traits but could still turn out to be a great partner. There could be men who have any of the traits and can be even worse, but after talking about it, he overcomes it and could become a wonderful partner.

You should simply watch out for the types of men that take things to the extreme and make you miserable. And see if there is any possible chance of improving it. A successful relationship is one where both the partners understand, respect, care, appreciate and love each other. That is there is a kind of satisfaction in your relationship. And if you are unhappy more often than satisfied in your relationship, it's better to give serious consideration to it before its too late.

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